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How to write a heartfelt eulogy: A step-by-step guide

So you’re in charge of writing the eulogy for your loved one and you’re not quite sure where to start. Think of it like a journey where you guide your audience through the different facets of your loved one's life. Welkin has put together an outline of the main talking points to get you started.


Start strong. Capture everyone's attention with a warm welcome and a brief introduction to the purpose of the eulogy. This is where you set the emotional tone for the room. Share a touching quote, a relevant passage, or even a personal reflection that encapsulates the essence of your loved one.

"Good afternoon, everyone. Today, we gather not just to mourn the loss of a dear soul but to celebrate a life that touched us all. As we embark on this journey of remembrance, let's reflect on the beautiful moments that made [your loved one] truly special."


This is the heart of your eulogy, where you share the stories and characteristics that defined your loved one. Break it down into several sections, each focusing on a different aspect of their life. 

"Now, let's journey through the chapters of [your loved one]'s life, starting with the early years that laid the foundation for the remarkable person we all knew and loved..."

Here are some ideas:

  1. Early Life and Background:
  • Share some glimpses into their childhood, upbringing, and early experiences.
  • Highlight any formative moments that shaped who they became.
  1. Personal Anecdotes:
  • Dive into personal stories that showcase their personality, quirks, and humor.
  • Paint a vivid picture of the moments that made everyone laugh or brought a tear to their eye.
  1. Achievements and Contributions:
  • Celebrate their accomplishments, both big and small.
  • Recognize any notable contributions they made to their community, workplace, or the lives of others.
  1. Values and Beliefs:
  • Explore the core values and beliefs that guided their life.
  • Share instances where these principles were evident in their actions.


Wrap it up with a powerful conclusion that leaves a lasting impression. Reflect on the overarching theme of your eulogy and express gratitude for the time you shared. Consider leaving the audience with a thought-provoking quote or a heartfelt message.

"In closing, let's carry the spirit of [your loved one]'s legacy forward. As we say our goodbyes, let us remember that their impact on our lives is everlasting. Thank you for joining us in honoring a life that will forever hold a special place in our hearts."

Remember, your eulogy is a mosaic of memories and emotions. Let it flow seamlessly, guiding your audience through the beautiful story of your loved one's life.

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